Cultivating Gratitude In The Garden

This is the season of thanksgiving, and we have everything we need to cultivate gratitude and share it with those we love right where we are. The garden is a place where our senses are awakened, our minds are freed, and our stress is relieved. It is a place where we can meditate, dream, and worship. It is where are hands are dirty and our soul is full. I want you to know this!!

The word cultivate means to “prepare and make ready to use.” In the garden, we cultivate your vegetables. We cultivate our soil. But we also use those things to cultivate gratitude in this season of Thanksgiving. Sound a little crazy? Stick with me! I have said for years that garden people are the best people. Now, let me tell you why. It is because we have this very unique opportunity to bring a smile to someone’s face, to help someone feel loved, to share what we have harvested, and to welcome others into this amazing miracle with us. And as we do this our world changes. Our world literally changes, and it changes right before our eyes.

3 Ways To Cultivate Gratitude In Your Garden This Season

herb bundles

One of the easiest things to share from the garden is herbs, and you can plant them right now!! Herbs need to be harvested, and the more you pick the more they grow. Cutting herbs daily is good for the herbs and it is good for YOU!! Herbs awaken our senses. They release phytoncides that are antibacterial, anti-fungal, they smell amazing, and as we breathe them in they tell our bodies to do amazing things. When we touch them, their essential oils enter our body’s greatest organ, the skin, and go directly to our blood stream for an almost instant boost of goodness. And, they relax our mind with their beauty. It is magic. And we have access to them any time we want. I love to share these little leaves of loveliness with people I visit, and have them on hand for visitors who come to me. I put them all over the house in vases to create my own diffuser, right from the yard, and have been been known to add them to my bath water. It is so simple to enjoy herbs, and yet it is so powerful.

My Favorite Herbs To Grow In The Cool Season:

sharing the fruits of your labor

This goes without saying to most gardeners, but sharing the fruits of my labor is my favorite part of gardening. I think most gardeners would agree that giving away veggies is the most rewarding part of the growing season. To be able to make someone’s day with a bag of produce that you grew is hard to beat. And it brings a smile to a person’s face like magic. The gratitude that comes from receiving someone’s hard earned harvest is about as pure as it gets.

My favorite cool season vegetable to share is LETTUCE!! Lettuce is so easy to grow, and having a salad buffet right outside your door is one of the most rewarding parts of the winter garden.

Here are some of my favorite cool season fruit and veggies to share:
  • lettuce
  • mustard greens
  • green onions
  • chard
  • carrots (tops and all…so beautiful)
  • beets
  • citrus

Sharing a Meal In The Garden

One of my favorite cool season activities is supper in the garden. Whether it is on a picnic blanket or a fully set table, eating outside is a special treat all in itself. Cultivate gratitude in your family and friends by enjoying supper outdoors. When the harvest is plenty, the garden repays us for our hard work by giving right back to us with a menu fit for a king. Invite some friends over for a special evening, or just serve your family in the garden. You won’t regret the effort, I promise!

This season is the perfect season to host a time of togetherness in the garden. Thanksgiving in the garden is a memory for a lifetime! Even if you aren’t hosting the holiday feast at your own house, you can still enjoy the privilege of welcoming others into our happy place and offering them some of our pickings. A large salad, fresh from the garden with all types of topping options will make those seated at your table feel like the are enjoying a vacation experience. The garden has a way of taking your mind to a place of peace and rest….you know that.

Even if you aren’t hosting the holiday feast at your own house, it is a privilege to welcome others into our happy place and offer them some of our pickings.

I had the honor of being featured in inRegister magazine’s November issue, which you can read here. And then, I had such fun talking about table setting rom the garden, which was a real treat for me. You can read the full article here. But here are the highlights for you.

1. Start with the green.

Evergreen branches from shrubs–not from trees–are best. Things like ligustrum, any kind of citrus plant and boxwood branches are a great place to start. And for the grand finale, cut magnolia leaves. I like the ones that are several leaves together with the pod in the middle. So beautiful!

2. Don’t overlook weeds.

Weeds are perfect for this kind of thing. Look around and find what speaks to you. Who cares what it’s called! There’s this tall grass that grows in many yards right now and it’s great for a Thanksgiving table. It looks right out of Little House on the Prairie.

3. Quarantine your plants.

After you cut everything, let it sit for a few hours. Trust me, do this step. It helps get all the bugs out. You don’t want spiders running across anyone’s dinner.

4. Lay it flat.

Tall vases overcomplicate things. They’re harder to arrange and then it’s hard for people to see through them when they’re trying to have a conversation at the table. Instead, layer the different greenery on the table to create dimension that isn’t overwhelming.

5. Spice it up.

Fruits like satsumas and lemons look great. Pumpkins are amazing! I also like to walk around the yard and pick up things like big acorns, pecans, walnuts, and pine cones. Then I go around the house and round up other things like lanterns or deer antlers. It’s south Louisiana–our husbands have things we can borrow. Just use your imagination. Finally, I see if there’s anything else I want to add, like fake birds or pumpkins that I can get from a store.

You don’t have to be hosting the meal at your house to decorate your table and enjoy it. It takes only about 30 minutes to collect all of this stuff, and it’s therapeutic. This process will cultivate gratitude in you as well as those seated amongst the beauty. This is your reward too. Just this 30 minute nature walk around your yard collecting things to go on the table can dramatically change your day. Try it!! Then share with someone else! You are changing the world, plant lady! Believe me!!

Today I will be live at noon on the Wild Child Farms Facebook page decorating my Thanksgiving table. I have foraged my yard for all the good stuff, and I am going to show you how to use what you have to create a gorgeous table to share with those you love. Join me and get all the tips!!

4 Cool Season Pests To Watch For

In the cool season garden, the pests that will be most likely to drive you crazy are worms, slugs, critters that visit for a midnight snack, and the weather. Today, I am going to show you how to get a plan to deal with them all. This is a season of low pest pressure, but we can’t let our guard down. Cool season pests can do serious damage!!

The first step to getting a pest plan is to raise your tolerance to insect and disease damage. There is no need to panic if there are a few spots or a few holes in a few leaves of your plants. Insect and disease problems often come and go without causing a substantial amount of damage. In a vegetable garden on Pinterest, there won’t be any munched leaves on the cabbage and cauliflower, but that just isn’t reality. Chances are, you will have holes in your leaves. And that is not a huge cause of concern.

Left unchecked, however, and insects and disease can quickly reduce or even wipe out crops we have worked hard to grow. So regular monitoring and early intervention are the key. The best techniques to reduce pest problems are proactive. Make it a point to inspect your garden every day, at least in the mornings, preferably morning and evening, to know what is going on.

One of the best defenses against pest problems is to keep your plants in tip top condition through good culture. A healthy, vigorous plant is usually more resistant to disease and withstands insect attack better. Good culture includes proper spacing when planting, and planting the right plant in the right location where it receives the proper soil, drainage, water, light and nutrients.

LSU Ag Center

Starting off right is the best way to help your garden through the season. We focus so much on spacing and soil building and sunlight, and this is why! Now, it isn’t a guarantee because we are dealing with nature of course, but this is a great first step. Now let’s talk about specific pests and how to deal with them.

Worms in the Garden…And Not The Good Kind

In the warm season, army worms and horn worms wreak havoc on our summer veggies. In the cool season we will deal with cabbage worms. They act the same way as an army worm. The come meaning business and are very hungry. These worms make the leaves of your plants look so raggedy and drive gardeners crazy.

These are the two most common cabbage worms we will see this season, and believe it or not, the easiest way to get rid of them is to just pick them off. Generally, you can get rid of them before they do too much damage if you are inspecting at least once a day. Some signs to look for are always black or green residue on the leaves. When you see that, you know that a worm is close by. You will also sometimes see their web. The leaf will be rolled over with webbing inside of it. If you see this, pry open the leaf and you will most likely find a worm inside.

There are a couple ways to get rid of them. Picking them off is gross, but it is very efficient. You can also hose them off of your plants. Chickens love to eat them, so if you pick them off, pass them along to the chickens for a little treat!


Companion planting is the key to prevention for fall worm invasions. Planting marigolds and nasturtiums really help out in the pest control department. The worms LOVE these plants , so they will wreak havoc on nasturtiums, particularly, but will leave your brassicas alone. AND, the spiders feast on the larvae (worms) that are all over the nasturtium, keeping them from coming back next year! Companion planting is key!

You can also use Dipel Dust to kill any infestation of caterpillar that you can’t seem to get rid of. Remember, in order for this to work, the worms must ingest the dust. This is only a good remedy for worms you are seeing. If you aren’t seeing worms, but you are seeing munching, you may have another pest problem.

Slugs and Snails In The Garden….Harmless? No Way!

Slugs are one of the most common garden pests during the cool season, and facing a slug infestation is serious business, filled with slime trails, damaged leaves, and missing seedlings. The truth is that organic slug control is both manageable and affordable, when you’re armed with the right tools. Here is how to deal with these garden gobblers.

Now that the weather is cooling off, the slugs will begin coming out for a midnight snack more often. Garden slug control can be difficult because many times the problem is misdiagnosed and the damage is blamed on another garden pest. Since slugs feed primarily at night, gardeners tend to notice the damaged plants, but they can’t find the culprit when they search the garden during the day. So, the cause of the damage becomes a mystery and the gardener might choose to spray the plant with a general insecticide in an attempt to kill the bug, which is useless, of course, against a slug.

So what do you do?? You have to get smarter than them. If you have had damaged leaves on your plants, but aren’t seeing any worms, you may have slugs coming to visit. If you are gardening in raised beds, the chances of slugs finding your plants are less, but if you have been spraying your lawn for cabbage moths in the last few weeks and now you have vegetable damage, you may have inadvertently driven the slugs to your garden. Here are some signs:

• If you come out to the garden in the morning and nothing remains of your seedlings but leaf mid-ribs and stumps, slugs are a likely culprit.
• Perfect, round holes in tomatoes, strawberries, and other soft fruits can also indicate the slugs are coming by.
• Ragged holes in leaf edges and centers is another sign of slugs.
• Slime trails on plants, walls, rocks, or mulch are another tell-tale sign of slug troubles.


Seeing any of these signs?? Let’s talk about how to test the waters to see if you may have a slug problem. It is easier than you think. Next time you snack on a citrus fruit like a satsuma, unpeel the rind carefully so you can keep one bowl-shaped half in tact. Poke a hole that’s large enough for a slug to fit through, and then sit the fruit upside down like a dome in a shallow pan of soapy water in your garden. The sweet scent will lure slugs in, distracting them from their usual meal: your plants. If a predator doesn’t get to them first, you will have a nice dish of dead slugs in the garden the next morning. You can also use this same idea with beer. Just leave out the satsumas and fill the pan with beer instead of soapy water. The kicker here is that you will need to place several pans out. I like to use tuna fish cans or cat food cans. These are just the right size. Fill them up and cross your fingers.

One of the best ways to prevent slugs from coming to your garden is to water in the mornings, not the evenings. Slugs and snails love a moist environment, so watering at night is like rolling out the red carpet for them!! For many reasons, not just slugs, keep the watering to a morning chore!

Other Critters To Watch Out For In The Cool Season Garden

Visitors like mice, rabbits, deer, and even skunks and raccoons will enjoy those tender baby seedlings the first night you put them out. If you are having a hard time keeping anything past a night or two, you probably have some visitors feasting on your veggies.

A few things can help with critter invasions like creating a scarecrow, or even installing a fence around your garden area. These may be things that you want to look into investing in the off season, but right now as we are just getting our gardens underway, my recommendation is to use the same method for the critters that I will suggest for temperature! You gotta cover the plants! Let’s talk about that now!

Freezing Temperatures Are The Biggest Pest of All

While worms and slugs and even pesky critters can and will do extensive damage when they pay us a visit, nothing will wipe out a garden faster than an unexpected frost or a dip down into freezing temperatures when you aren’t prepared.

Here are The Veggies That You Have To Keep An Eye On

  • any newly planted tender seedlings
  • tomatoes, peppers, eggplants, squash, cucumber
  • basil, mint, warm season herbs
  • pumpkins
  • okra
  • beans

If you have any of these growing now, you will want to begin making preparations for covering them now, not the day of the freeze warning. With a first frost date usually falling in early November for most of South Louisiana, we are overdue now and need to get a plan to protect our hard work.

Tip: All summer veggies should come completely out this month. Their fruit will be mushy if there is a frost, whether they are covered or not, so don’t give them any more time. Instead, plant something for the cool season in their place where your production will be so much more.

The most uniform way to protect your vegetables for both critters and frosts is to cover them. You not only need frost protection for newly planted seedlings and some veggies, but if you are seeing critters, this is a great way to protect your veggies from them at the same time. Your brassicas, leafy greens, and root vegetables are all frost tolerant, so no need to worry about them, but they are also a favorite of the overnight visitors, slugs, and worms.

Use a lightweight cloth for insect protection. This will allow sun and water to filter through, but at the same time keep the critters at bay. This is the fabric I like to use. For a frost protection fabric, choose something a little bit heavier like this, or just plan to cover newly transplanted seedlings when needed with a bed sheet, or sleeping bags work well. The only difference is that when using a sheet you will have to uncover them the following morning to allow them to get sunlight.

I hope this has been helpful to you. While there is no easy answer that will solve all of our garden woes, these very few pests will most likely be all you deal with this season. Taking measures now to stop them in their tracks will do wonders for your garden in the coming months.

Join me live for Wild Child Wednesday, every Wednesday at noon on Facebook! This week I will be sharing about getting a frost protection plan and how to know when to put it into place. It is easier than you think when you’ve got a plan!! I will also have a free handy download for you too!! I have taken all the guess work out of frosts and freezes, and I am going to help you get a plan too! Join me!!

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